Make Yourself HAPPY
This is not a word, it's a feeling in its own. You see in this world everyone want's to be happier forever. But no one can achieve that state. Why? Have you ever asked yourself. Why you are unhappy?
If you look closely , very closely , you will find that our happiness - sadness , pain - pleasure , sorrow - joy everything, depends on our relations. Relation such as husband-wife, parent-son, friends, girlfriends, relatives etc. and now a day, sometime unknown social media friends also join that row. All our happiness depend on others . How will he/she react to my expectation!!, will he/she keep my expectation or make me hopeless!!, I have done so much for her/him , but he ditch me or he/she does not kept promise.
This is how we become emotional fool by giving our happiness to someone else's hand. And we blame our fate every time,whenever they hurt our feeling, by not fulfilling our expectation.
Please ask yourself , Is it possible for you to change another person, if he/she doesn't want to change? Can you change anyone's habit if that person doesn't want ? Is it really possible to change anyone ???
But, Can you change yourself ?
Yes, obviously You can. Because you have 100% control in yourself, your habit, your expectation, your happiness, your joy, your pleasure and you have 0% control or no control over someone else's reaction or habit.
So, change yourself , find your own happiness, it's not essential that happiness only comes from someone else. You can be happy without expecting that , someone else will make you happy.
This article is not showing you the path to stay single or something else, please don't misunderstand , it's just asking you to be happy in your own.
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