Parents Also Give Their Child The Gift Of Death...

Have you ever asked yourself that, if your parents, relatives and friends haven't told you how to worship your own God, then which god you should be worshiping now? Which rituals you should be following now? Hindu's, Muslim's, Sikh's, Christian's Or Jain's ?

Inheritance is the huge truth of our existence, it is the main reason behind 'Who we are today' .

Ask Yourself, From where you have inherited your internal will power, Your basic knowledge. understood the right thing , even learned the mother tongue also ( Parents teach their child about the language they should speak, that's why a child also gains the same mother tongue).

Yes, Obviously patrimony is the best gift from parents to their child. Because parent's always try to give their child all the happiness of the world, But unknowingly parent's also fill their child's bag with Poison.

Ask yourself, What gifts you have given to your child? Yes you will remind about Love, Knowledge, Property, Money etc. , but, doesn't you also have given them the preconception and prejudice about all things? Haven't you taught them the predetermined knowledge about the good's and the bad's ? The friend's and the foe's ? The right way's and the wrong Path's ? And many other things.

If you keenly notice, you will find that, these preconceptions are the results of those big war's and conflicts which had been held in the black pages of our history books and even also ruining our present. Doesn't these predetermined forecast's make distances and conflicts between persons, between religions, between countries ? Which results Murders and bloodshed.

Therefore, besides of life, parents also gives their child the gift of death. Beside of love, they also fulfill their child's mind with the dark knowledge of Repulsion.

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How To Grow Your Child Strong?

Every Parent always try to secure their child's future. They try to fulfill their child's future with ease and comfort. So they always feel tense about their child's upcoming life. They try to decide their child's future and profession by their own. The path in which he walked so long in his life, the path of which he knows all the ups and downs. He decide that his child will also follow the same path. 

Yes, Of course its an ethical thought.

But we overlook some important points. We forget to ask some key questions,

First, Doesn't every situation and path changes with time? Does the path which your father have walked, the business or the job, haven't changed with time, its highs & lows? So how can you be so sure that new generation will also get success in the same path?

Second, Doesn't every stumble of life makes your child more strong? Doesn't every new question opens a new answer ? So, will your child grow or stuck in his life, if you keep him in a distance from new challenges, from struggles and from new questions?

So, Will it not be more profitable if you try to teach your child to struggle and tackle every situations of life and give inner strength and increase his/her self esteem to face every challenges???

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To All Parents, My Favourite Lines

FATHER FORGETS

W. Livingston Larned

Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little paw crumpled under your cheek and the blond curls stickily wet on your damp forehead. I have stolen into your room alone. Just a few minutes ago, as I sat reading my paper in the library, a stifling wave of remorse swept over me. Guiltily I came to your bedside. There are the things I was thinking, son: I had been cross to you. I scolded you as you were dressing for school because you gave your face merely a dab with a towel. I took you to task for not cleaning your shoes. I called out angrily when you threw some of your things on the floor.

At breakfast I found fault, too. You spilled things. You gulped down your food. You put your elbows on the table. You spread butter too thick on your bread. And as you started off to play and I made for my train, you turned and waved a hand and called, “Goodbye, Daddy!” and I frowned, and said in reply, “Hold your shoulders back!”

Then it began all over again in the late afternoon. As I came up the road I spied you, down on your knees, playing marbles. There were holes in your stockings. I humiliated you before your boyfriends by marching you ahead of me to the house. Stockings were expensive— and if you had to buy them you would be more careful! Imagine that, son, from a father!

Do you remember, later, when I was reading in the library, how you came in timidly, with a sort of hurt look in your eyes? When I glanced up over my paper, impatient at the interruption, you hesitated at the door. “What is it you want?” I snapped.

You said nothing, but ran across in one tempestuous plunge, and threw your arms around my neck and kissed me, and your small arms tightened with an affection that God had set blooming in your heart and which even neglect could not wither. And then you were gone, pattering up the stairs.

Well, son, it was shortly afterwards that my paper slipped from my hands and a terrible sickening fear came over me. What has habit been doing to me? The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding—this was my reward to you for being a boy. It was not that I did not love you; it was that I expected too much of youth. I was measuring you by the yardstick of my own years.

And there was so much that was good and fine and true in your character. The little heart of you was as big as the dawn itself over the wide hills. This was shown by your spontaneous impulse to rush in and kiss me good night. Nothing else matters tonight, son. I have come to your bedside in the darkness, and I have knelt there, ashamed!

It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand these things if I told them to you during your waking hours. But tomorrow I will be a real daddy! I will chum with you, and suffer when you suffer, and laugh when you laugh. I will bite my tongue when impatient words come. I will keep saying as if it were a ritual: “He is nothing but a boy —a little boy!”

I am afraid I have visualized you as a man. Yet as I see you now, son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that you are still a baby.

Yesterday you were in your mother’s arms, your head on her shoulder. I have asked too much, too much.

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What Knowledge You Should Teach Your Child ??

As Parents, we all wish that our Child should get all the prosperity, Happiness, Comfort, Wealth, Health in his future. Every parents works for day and night to make their child's future better, to protect them from the future uncertainty. We all desire to give everything to our child because we know that, all our happiness-sadness, hope-despair, knowledge-ignorance are bonded with our child. 

But we are not right at all. If those desires were true and gives their results in future, then no parents should be founded in old-age-home, No parents should be divided between their two sons, to take care of their responsibility and no parents should be found in the roads begging for food.

So, it's clear that by seeking their future's happiness, comfort etc. doesn't grow your child better.

 Instead of trying to secure their future, if we try to improve their character today, and instead of protecting them from those obstruction of their path, if we teach them to fight against the obstruction, doesn't they will grow stronger?? doesn't their future will be an enlighten one?? ask yourself

First one should teach their child good habits, good knowledge, good behavior, good conversation, good communication, good interaction,and deep their roots into it. Only then you don't have to think about their future, they will build it on their own. And obviously, forget about your old age also, because they will take care of you.

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Why I Came Last in My Class???

 Why I Came Last in My Class?

Hello Friends, When I was in my school I always thought that i am giving my full time in my study but why my grades are not improving, as well as my school roll no. was also standing behind many of my friend's. Some of my friend who were the toppers can remember same as our teacher dictated but I was failure, even to remembering my lessons, after reading many times.

Now after so much days, after understanding how human brain works, I can understand, what was my fault during my school days, why i felt behind. The Secret Is hidden in a five  letters word

  " F O C U S " . Lack of FOCUS is the main reason why so much students fall behind, Why he/she cannot recall those lessons which he remember many times or which his teacher dictates.

Not only in school , you will find many humans in our daily life who are lagging behind and cannot understand what is there problem, some even don't try to understand to make themselves better.

So, when does this phenomena starts of distraction? Its starts when we start to feed our small baby by showing a cartoon channel program in the Television or Our Android mobile. We are unknowingly giving the lesson to him, how to distract. How not to think about the food he/she is eating. Have YOU ever noticed While you are Brushing your teeth, gobbling your food, or sitting in a place, standing alone, walking or lying in your bed, you are thinking about anything else. which are even worthless. But you cannot get control over yourself to not to think. This thinking process had started during your childhood when you were watching tv during eating. Isn't it? 

Yes, you can get control over your thinking. You Can Focus on yourself, your real time work. 

This article is not about how to get focus, it is easily available in the youtube, with one click. This article is about why my roll no. fall behind so many of my friends. If it has given the understanding to you that' Why? and what to do? 'then i thinks it has done its work.  Thank You

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